By the way, this article is for married
couples only who are having problems in this department so, if you are
not married or uninterested, please, skip to the next news item. Thank
you.
According to Wikipedia, oral sex is sexual activity involving the
stimulation of the genitalia of a sex partner by the use of the mouth,
tongue, teeth or throat. Cunnilingus refers to oral sex performed on
females while fellatio refer to oral sex performed on males. People may
engage in oral sex as part of foreplay before sexual intercourse,
during, or as intercourse.
There are a lot of men
who don’t like giving oral sex even if the woman is clean and trim.
Some just don’t like the taste. Others find it degrading. And some just
don’t like it cause they’re not getting any stimulation at the same
time. There are a number of reasons why he may not like it and you need
to get the specifics- he is your man, talk to him.
Now for the ladies who do not have such a nonchalant attitude towards
cunninlingus or the lack of it in their relationship, here are four
reasons why he probably won’t go down on you:
He Just Doesn’t Want To
Yes, he probably just doesn’t want to be bothered with the intricacies of going down on you. Just like some women, some men also do not like to go down south. I have even heard some Nigerian men
say it is a ‘traditional thing’ and they feel it is an insult for a
woman to expect them to perform what they see as a vile act. Well, your
man just might fit into this type so don’t worry your pretty little head
about it, its not you, its him.
You Smell Bad Down There
This seems to be the problem most of the time, I’ve often heard men complain about encounters with women who suffer from what I like to call ‘Smelly Vagina Syndrome’
. So
if your man gives you a funny face when you try to subtly push his head
down there then you should do something about your private area asap! Get some mild feminine wash and get
rid of that putrid smell, if this doesn’t work then you might be
suffering from a form of Sexually Transmitted Disease or a toilet
infection. Infected vagina has the tendency to produce smelly discharge
no matter how many times you wash or douche (by the way, experts
advocate just washing of the vagina with clean warm water using clean
hands rather than douching or constantly washing with soap- the vagina
is ‘self cleaning’ in itself) so see a doctor immediately.
He Is Just Not That Into You
While this reason is mostly saddening it just might be the case. If a
man is not really into you he won’t want to participate in a very
intimate act like oral sex, all he’ll want is the actual sexual act and
nothing more.
You Don’t Shave
While some women
do well in grooming their private area, others are just too lazy to pay
any attention to that aspect. Now, this just might be the reason why
your man is reluctant to perform cunnilingus on you. A bushy vagina is a
serious turn off for most men, no one wants to be picking out pubic
hairs from their teeth with a toothpick afterwards. So do your man a
favour, get a clean shave or better still wax it!
There’s no gray area here; guys either like it or don’t. So if he
doesn’t, please respect his feelings and don’t make a big deal out of
it unless of course, it’s something you can’t live without.
