Sunday, December 09, 2012

Female Erogenous Zones 101

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Female Erogenous Zones 101
Learn the map of this zones to give your girl sexual pleasure that is so out-of-this-world and keep her coming back for MORE....

When you first meet someone, your whole body is an erogenous zone because the actual definition of erogenous zones is any place of the body that when stimulated results in sexual arousal. The major erogenous zone is actually the skin itself. However some parts of skin have more nerve endings than others, but it does not matter when it comes to the kind of touching that turns us on.

This is why when you first meet someone, it does not matter where they touch you, and it turns you on. This is one of the reasons that we all love the beginning of a relationship. However every woman likes a different combination to varying degrees, here is a list of the most common loved hot spots.

HER EARS
Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then exhale deeply but gently while you keep nibbling. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there, the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most women. Make sure to remember there is a fine line between sensual ear play and “wet willies”. Very few women enjoy having someone's tongue jammed down their ears!

HER NECK
Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber. Cover different areas of her neck with tender kisses, using the areas under or behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle as she gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to light that fire of passion within her.  As for hackles it is up to you and your partner, but try to keep the hackles to places that are usually covered by clothes.

HER LIPS
The number one mistake guys in long term relationships make during sex is not devoting enough time to kissing. Women love to kiss, and many of them complain that guys just don't spend enough time on it. But don't just kiss more, also do it better. Try varying the intensity. Kiss her softly, then more passionately, and then slow it down again. When you're done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or earlobes. Don’t get boring doing the same thing over and over; make sure to blend up your style. Let your hands roam over her body as you progress in the kissing.

HER SCALP
A lot of women love to play with their hair. It's not just a nervous habit; they do it because it feels good. Chances are she's wishing you would play with it, too. The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since she's probably not expecting you to lavish any attention on it, surprise her. Having her hair brushed can be a very sensual experience.

Or run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand. Get some bonus points for washing or blow-drying, just leave the actual styling to her - you'll never get that thing with her bangs to work out right. On the other hand, some women have phobias when it comes to having their head touched; start out slow so your partner has a chance to stop you if she is one of those.

Breasts are familiar territory for most men and they're fun, so it's unlikely you'll shortchange them. The mistake you're more likely to make is giving them too much or too vigorous attention before she's ready. Over-stimulating the breast can be numbing or painful for women during some parts of their menstrual cycle. Try taking the less-is-more approach.

Touch her breast softly, then lift your hand away for a moment, and then continue. That allows her to have the important moment of anticipation. Stick to indirect stimulation of the nipples until they become aroused (hard) and don't just focus on the bull’s-eye; same concept as before - anticipation. The entire breast is rich in nerve endings and all breasts have the same number of nerve endings.

Thus, the woman with smaller breasts may experience increased sensations per touch. This results from a condensed amount of nerve endings. All breasts respond with time; lovers, go slow, take your time and slowly fondle the breast. Areas that are especially sensitive to touch include the nipple and the areola (the pinkish area that directly surrounds the nipple). One of the most sensitive spots, which is often ignored, is the underside of her breast. When kissing and touching her breasts, try starting around the outside and moving inward with slow circles.

She may push your mouth or hand directly to her nipples, but don't let her do it, just continue moving slowly towards her nipple. Take your time; she is not going anywhere, so tease her. This whole process should take at least a few minutes. Next, wet the tip of your finger and lightly touch and roll her nipple around. Then, very lightly, using your fingertips, squeeze the nipple between them and when they are nice and hard, bring your mouth in. Note: some women enjoy nibbling and rougher play, while others are really sensitive and prefer light soft touching. Find out her preferences by asking or watching her reactions.

 
HER PERINEUM
The perineum is the area between the vagina and the anus, it is very sensitive for a lot of women and it often goes unexplored. It's made from tissue similar to the vaginal lips so there are a lot of nerve endings there. It also has an element of intimacy that might turn her on. Some girls are scared of or disgusted by anal play, so if this is the case, ease her mind by reassuring her that you are not going to do anything she is against.

It's not a part of the body that's normally exposed, so she will feel like she's giving you special privileges, which can be exciting. This area is like any other area you first encounter that is sensitive, stick to a light touch at first and hold off until she's been aroused for some time. For a smoother experience, try using a little lubricant.

HER CLITORIS
It is located at the top juncture of her inner vaginal lips, a small knob of pink flesh. Women like different amounts of direct stimulation on their clitoris. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clitoris, others would shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia.

Often, what is unacceptably rough at first may be fine after she's very excited (i.e., very wet). The fact is, most women need a good bit of arousal before having their clitoris targeted, but once they have reached that point, that's where many women want you to devote your attention. Refer to the diagrams if you are unsure of where the clitoris is located.

SHOULDERS, HANDS AND ARMS
Massage or stroke gently - a good zone to start with during seduction and foreplay as stimulation is pleasurable, but not as intimate. The upper limbs respond well to gentle as well as firm pressure. Knead and stroke the fingertips and hands. Then move strokes up the arms towards the shoulders. Firm massage of the shoulder area is great for release of stress and muscle tension. Soft touch and gentle scratching of these areas are intimate and extremely pleasurable.

HER OTHER SOFT SPOTS
Here is where you can be really creative. Try tenderly kissing or caressing the backs of her knees, the insides of her arms, her inner thighs, or her palms. Stroking, kissing and licking the soft inner thighs is highly arousing. Circular massage or stroking of the abdominal area can be very pleasurable as well. Navels have always grabbed the imagination of lovers - it fits the tongue, big toe, gland or finger and responds well to kissing and licking. Women love to have these areas gently stroked, kissed, licked, or blown upon. Be gentle on these areas, they are made of very soft tissue.

Gentle stimulation is usually more arousing than pressure that's hard or rough. Catching her off guard can be half the fun. A lot of people don't realize that having a tongue going up their inner arm is going to be erotic. Touching the eyelids, eyebrows, temples, and cheeks can be very intimate. Kiss eyelids, temples and cheeks gently. Use your eyelashes to caress your partner's cheeks or neck.

HER BUTTOCKS
A lot of women like their buttocks attended to, and with more vigor than you might think. They are a major erogenous zone but are less sensitive than breasts because they contain muscles as well as fat. They need stronger stimulation - try holding, kneading, patting or smacking. You can use pressure here that you wouldn't use on a breast.

It's not sensitive the way a nipple or a clitoris is so you can knead them and squeeze them. Many women are self conscious about their behinds, so spending time here will show her that you like it, and hopefully allow her to be more comfortable with herself and you. In all positions, the muscular movements of coitus stimulate the buttocks. Increase the pleasure by holding the buttocks tightly during intercourse.

THE SMALL OF HER BACK
Don't make the mistake of making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That's what she's expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her stomach and massage her lower back. Besides being rich in nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that sucking on her nipple or rubbing her clitoris will, but it'll feel good and help release stress.

What's more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area. Start by applying steady but moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper massage. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well. One technique we have learned usually works well with a massage is; while you are massaging her, take a minute or so to kiss her neck, and then run your tongue very softly down her spine. After this you can continue with the massage or "go for lunch."

HER FINGERS TOES AND SOLES
Try rubbing, kissing or sucking on her fingers or toes during foreplay or intercourse. Tickle the soles or apply firm pressure to the instep They're a lot more sensitive than you might think and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives sensation for them. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them, especially combined with the sensations you're causing in her genitals, can be incredibly erotic. Don't neglect the palms when holding hands or during foreplay. Keep fingers interlocked during intercourse. Keep your finger and toenails clean and neatly trimmed to avoid scratching or hurting your female partner during genital stimulation.

Now You can drive through her erogenous zones and drive her WILD with pleasure.....

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