Candid talk .....
By the way, this article is for married
couples only who are having problems in this department so, if you are
not married or uninterested, please, skip to the next news item. Thank
you.
According to Wikipedia, oral sex is sexual activity involving the
stimulation of the genitalia of a sex partner by the use of the mouth,
tongue, teeth or throat. Cunnilingus refers to oral sex performed on
females while fellatio refer to oral sex performed on males. People may
engage in oral sex as part of foreplay before sexual intercourse,
during, or as intercourse.
There are a lot of men who don’t like giving oral sex even if the woman is clean and trim. Some just don’t like the taste. Others find it degrading. And some just don’t like it cause they’re not getting any stimulation at the same time. There are a number of reasons why he may not like it and you need to get the specifics- he is your man, talk to him.
Now for the ladies who do not have such a nonchalant attitude towards cunninlingus or the lack of it in their relationship, here are four reasons why he probably won’t go down on you:
He Just Doesn’t Want To
Yes, he probably just doesn’t want to be bothered with the intricacies of going down on you. Just like some women, some men also do not like to go down south. I have even heard some Nigerian men say it is a ‘traditional thing’ and they feel it is an insult for a woman to expect them to perform what they see as a vile act. Well, your man just might fit into this type so don’t worry your pretty little head about it, its not you, its him.
You Smell Bad Down There
This seems to be the problem most of the time, I’ve often heard men complain about encounters with women who suffer from what I like to call ‘Smelly Vagina Syndrome’. So if your man gives you a funny face when you try to subtly push his head down there then you should do something about your private area asap! Get some mild feminine wash and get rid of that putrid smell, if this doesn’t work then you might be suffering from a form of Sexually Transmitted Disease or a toilet infection. Infected vagina has the tendency to produce smelly discharge no matter how many times you wash or douche (by the way, experts advocate just washing of the vagina with clean warm water using clean hands rather than douching or constantly washing with soap- the vagina is ‘self cleaning’ in itself) so see a doctor immediately.
He Is Just Not That Into You
While this reason is mostly saddening it just might be the case. If a man is not really into you he won’t want to participate in a very intimate act like oral sex, all he’ll want is the actual sexual act and nothing more.
You Don’t Shave
While some women do well in grooming their private area, others are just too lazy to pay any attention to that aspect. Now, this just might be the reason why your man is reluctant to perform cunnilingus on you. A bushy vagina is a serious turn off for most men, no one wants to be picking out pubic hairs from their teeth with a toothpick afterwards. So do your man a favour, get a clean shave or better still wax it!
There’s no gray area here; guys either like it or don’t. So if he doesn’t, please respect his feelings and don’t make a big deal out of it unless of course, it’s something you can’t live without.
There are a lot of men who don’t like giving oral sex even if the woman is clean and trim. Some just don’t like the taste. Others find it degrading. And some just don’t like it cause they’re not getting any stimulation at the same time. There are a number of reasons why he may not like it and you need to get the specifics- he is your man, talk to him.
Now for the ladies who do not have such a nonchalant attitude towards cunninlingus or the lack of it in their relationship, here are four reasons why he probably won’t go down on you:
He Just Doesn’t Want To
Yes, he probably just doesn’t want to be bothered with the intricacies of going down on you. Just like some women, some men also do not like to go down south. I have even heard some Nigerian men say it is a ‘traditional thing’ and they feel it is an insult for a woman to expect them to perform what they see as a vile act. Well, your man just might fit into this type so don’t worry your pretty little head about it, its not you, its him.
You Smell Bad Down There
This seems to be the problem most of the time, I’ve often heard men complain about encounters with women who suffer from what I like to call ‘Smelly Vagina Syndrome’. So if your man gives you a funny face when you try to subtly push his head down there then you should do something about your private area asap! Get some mild feminine wash and get rid of that putrid smell, if this doesn’t work then you might be suffering from a form of Sexually Transmitted Disease or a toilet infection. Infected vagina has the tendency to produce smelly discharge no matter how many times you wash or douche (by the way, experts advocate just washing of the vagina with clean warm water using clean hands rather than douching or constantly washing with soap- the vagina is ‘self cleaning’ in itself) so see a doctor immediately.
He Is Just Not That Into You
While this reason is mostly saddening it just might be the case. If a man is not really into you he won’t want to participate in a very intimate act like oral sex, all he’ll want is the actual sexual act and nothing more.
You Don’t Shave
While some women do well in grooming their private area, others are just too lazy to pay any attention to that aspect. Now, this just might be the reason why your man is reluctant to perform cunnilingus on you. A bushy vagina is a serious turn off for most men, no one wants to be picking out pubic hairs from their teeth with a toothpick afterwards. So do your man a favour, get a clean shave or better still wax it!
There’s no gray area here; guys either like it or don’t. So if he doesn’t, please respect his feelings and don’t make a big deal out of it unless of course, it’s something you can’t live without.
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