Will Smith And I Don't Have An Open Relationship - Jada Pinkett Smith

Jada Pinkett Smith the Hollywood actress and wife of Will Smith say she and her husband, actor Will Smith, don't have an open relationship contrary to longstanding rumors saying they do.

The actress addressed the buzz during a recent interview with HuffPost Live, saying: "I've always told Will, 'You can do whatever you want as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and be OK.' Because at the end of the day, Will is his own man. I'm here as his partner, but he is his own man. He has to decide who he wants to be and that's not for me to do for him. Or vice versa."

E! News said Monday Pinkett Smith posted a clarification on Facebook after many people interpreted her remarks as confirmation she and her husband are permitted to have sex with other partners.

"Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not," she wrote on Facebook.

"I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing," she wrote. "The statement I made in regard to, 'Will can do whatever he wants,' has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist.

"Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should behave'? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of 'you better act right or else' keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self?

"What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE? Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE...for us???

"Here is how I will change my statement...Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship...this means we have a GROWN one."

Jada Pinkett and Will Smith married in 1997. They have two children.

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Research Reveals Women Are More Attracted To Men With Heavily Endowed Genitals

Previous studies on women’s preferences for male genital size have been mixed, and even though it is the men who typically worry about the size of their own genitals, it is not unusual for women to prefer large-size male genitalia, even if it is up to a point.

But scientists have always argued that the old studies relied on questionnaires, which they say may not always provide honest answers.

However, it is now scientifically proven that size does, indeed, matter significantly because women tend to be more attracted to men with large genitals.

A new study by Australian researchers found that while the average woman rates the average man with large genitals more attractive, large genitals also give tall men a bigger attractiveness boost than shorter men.

A publication of the study result in the journal of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, however, notes that the returns on bigger genitals start to decrease at a flaccid penile length of 2.99 inches (7.6 centimeters).

The study suggests that women’s preferences for bigger male genitals could explain why human males have relatively big genitals for their body size.

In previous related studies, scientists only asked women to judge the attractiveness of male figures in photos with only penile size varied, when in fact no trait is ever evaluated in a vacuum.

But in the Australian study, researchers at the Australian National University, showed 105 young Australian women life-size computer-generated figures of nude men, varying the figures’ flaccid penile size, height and shoulder-to-hip ratio.

Height and shoulder-to-hip ratio have previously been shown as factors used by women to judge attractiveness. The computer simulations varied penile width in sync with length, so that all penises were proportional.

The results revealed that women preferred taller men as well as high shoulder-to-hip ratios (meaning that the wider the shoulders were than the hip, the more attractive the man).

Shoulder-to-hip ratio was a major determiner of attractiveness, accounting for 79.6 percent of the variation in hot-or-not ratings.

Though the effect was less extreme, women also preferred larger male organs, at least up to 5.1 inches (13 cm) flaccid, which was the largest computer-generated penile size in the study. Beyond 2.99 inches, however, the additional attractiveness per extra length started to decline.

When the researchers controlled for shoulder-to-hip ratio, they found that a larger penis had a greater effect on attractiveness for taller men, hinting that a larger penis just looked more proportional on a taller man’s body, the researchers wrote, or it could be that women were biased against shorter men to the extent that even large genitals didn’t help. Interestingly, women’s own features mattered as well. Researchers found that taller women were more likely to find taller men attractive. Women with greater body mass per height were slightly more likely than thinner women to weigh penile size more heavily in their judgments of attractiveness, though the difference was small.

Researchers say the findings might help explain why humans have remarkably large genitalia given their average body size.

It is a fact that male humans have the largest penises that any other primate species: For example, male gorillas can weigh as much as 180 kilograms, but their erect penis length is only about 1.5 inches (4 cm).

Human males weigh about half of what gorillas do, but studies peg average erect or flaccid-but-stretched penis length from 4.7 inches (12 cm) to 6.5 inches (16.7 cm).

Evolutionary biologists theorize that large human penises might help remove sperm from

competing males during sex, but in an era before clothing, women may have been drawn to mating with men whose genitalia caught their eye.

Men with larger penises, then, may have passed on their genes more readily, resulting in the large-genitals trait being handed down the generations.

In other words, males may have females to thank for their greater-than-gorilla-sized genitals.

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Photo: World’s Tallest Teen Girl and Her Boyfriend

Now thats some serious height and the difference is clear lol.  6ft 8in Elisany da Cruz Silva is 17 and her boyfriend is 22. They recently went for a romantic walk on the beach.

The image that pops into my head when I look at them is a giraffe and an antelope. Imagine her hip is almost up to his shoulder! Damn!!!

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Civil Defence Official Die On Top Of Sex Partner

Now I have heard something like orgasmic death, could it be what happened?

Officials of the Nigerian Civil Defence Corps, Calabar, over the weekend monted a manhunt for a lady who allegedly had marathon sex with their colleague, Ofem Eta, during which he died. A source at 2, Orok Ita Street, Big Qua, where Ofem lived told P.M.NEWS that the man came back from duty on Friday evening and without eating any food went into marathon sex with the girl and passed away during the act.

“He came back from work and told me he was hungry and I prepared food for him but when I got there, his door was shut and when I knocked he told me to take the food back and bring it later. When I took the food to him later, his door was open and when I knocked he did not answer. When I went in I saw him lying naked on his bed,” the source said.

Ofem who hails from Mkapani in Yakkur Local Government Area is alleged to be fond of having sex with girls in most cases on empty stomach. A neighbour who did not want his name in print said the girl was among the several girls that visit Ofem.

“When she came she greeted us but we did not take particular interest in her and when she came out of his room we did not say anything to her because we did not suspect anything unusual until his town girl brought him food,” the neighbor said.

He said the girl took away Ofem’s phone probably to avoid any trace because she and the deceased night have had some communication before the visit.

“People from his office came here and disturbed the whole street but they could not arrest anybody because the girl went away with his phone,” the neighbour said.

When P.M.NEWS visited the Corps’ office, the Public Relations Officer, Mrs Nkoyo Bassey said: “The man was enjoying himself so that is strictly his personal responsibility and not the Corps’. Have a good day”.

A source at the Operation’s unit of the Corps where Ofem worked before his death said there are efforts to track down the lady “but for now we have not arrested anybody”.

P.M.NEWS

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Sexual Therapy: Pay $240 For Someone To Watch You Have Sex!!

Uummh I dont think so.

The quest for sexual satisfaction is birthing a new trend in sex therapy, with dissatisfied couples now turning to sex coaches who are paid to observe and then teach women and men how to be better lovers. Aniela McGuinness and her husband, Jourdan, both 29, were unhappy with their sex life so they approached New York-based sex coach Eric Amaranth, who, from a chair in the corner of a hotel room, gave the couple a bevy of sex toys and issued instructions.

For $240 per hour, the couple tried out different and mostly unknown intimate sex acts on each other, and by following Mr Amaranth's advice, they say they are more confident and enjoying the best sex of their relationship.

Mrs McGuinness, an actress, told UK's Grazia: 'I was nervous at first, of course. I wasn't sure how easily I would be able to relax. 'But it was an incredible experience, I had orgasms like I've never had before - with him in the room.'

After the success of Fifty Shades of Grey, couples, and especially women, believe there is something wrong with them if they aren't having mind-blowing sex - and are subsequently taking serious action with this new breed of sex tutors.

DailyMail

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Reader's Mail: What Do I Use To Become Tight Again?

  Got this from LIB

Hi Linda, I need advise from fellow LIBers. I'm a single 30 year old girl. My ex boyfriend was really endowed. Sex with him was great and all. But we ended up breaking up. I started seeing someone else some few months ago and its getting serious. Problem is I think my ex has expanded me too much and now, my current boyfriend isn't as big, he's just average. I don't really feel him as I'm now too wide. Oral with him is great, but I feel really bad when he enters, as it makes me feel say na me bad pass(pardon my pidgin) Dear LIBers, kindly advice me on drugs, exercise, cream, whatever to use to become tight again. Someone advised me to sit over a bucket of very hot water, but I don't think its working. I'll really appreciate ur help.

Thought we discussed this a little while ago? Girl, the solution is THIS :-)  *kidding* please reply her!

No be small thing o!!!

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How To Have Office Romance Without Killing Your Career

Its no news how office romance can go so awfully wrong ending in heartbreaks and death of careers. rcently in the news is the CIA chief resigning because of an affair; almost simultaneously, the president of Lockheed Martin was ousted due to an "inappropriate" relationship with a subordinate. Put aside the fact that both men are married and leaders of their organizations, which makes affairs more toxic. The question arises: Are office romances destined to ruin careers? What if you're single and think a colleague could be the love of your life? Is it always career suicide to have an office romance?

The answer is an unequivocal no. In fact, many people meet their soulmates at work and go on to have fulfilling relationships -- and careers. You can manage both -- if you observe these rules:

1. Be aware of company policy.
Many companies have no policies regarding office relationships. But some companies have strict no-fraternization policies, banning romances with colleagues. Others prohibit dating subordinates. And it can be a fireable offense to violate the policy. In that case, if you feel you've found your significant other, you may want to consider a transfer or having a conversation with your boss.

2. Say what you mean, mean what you say.
Are you genuinely interested in the co-worker -- or just flirting? I recommend against office "flirtationships" because they can lead to all kinds of misunderstandings. The other person may not know you're flirting or "kidding around."

3. Make sure it is mutual.
If you're not getting clear signals that the other person is interested, stop. The line can easily cross into sexual harassment if it isn't mutual.

4. Don't flaunt the relationship.
You're dating and couldn't be happier? Keep it to yourself. You don't have to ignore each other at work, but you should not do anything that would make other people uncomfortable. You want to maintain your reputation in the office as a professional. No kissing or holding hands at work.


5. Don't be a serial dater at work.
You'll inevitably cause hurt feelings and gossip. Reputations stick. If you're dating everyone in the office, that's how you'll become known. This goes for men and women.

6. Interns shouldn't date.
You don't want the impression of you to be that you started dating another intern a month after you started. Just wait until the semester is over; if you're both sincerely interested in each other, three months won't make a difference.

7. Stay clear of married co-workers.
This is simple. If you know the person who sits next to you at work is married or in a relationship, respect that. Don't put yourself or that person in a compromising situation. It will only lead to chaos.

8. Expect to be the subject of gossip.
No matter how discreet you are, people will find out about the relationship. And they will gossip. If you're dating a manager, and you're an entry-level worker, people are going to question your motives. Is she just trying to "get ahead"? If you're boss, people will likewise wonder whether you're "taking advantage" or being "duped." If you can't handle the gossip, don't date a colleague.

9. Be prepared for the breakup.
What will you do if the relationship ends? You need to think that through before you dive into the relationship. Can you handle seeing that person every day at work? Make sure you are 100 percent OK with that, before starting an office relationship.

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Your Work Romance Might Be Doomed

YEah once in a while it happens. That cute colleague of yours knocks you off your feet. Company policy may frown at it, besides it starts to affect your productivity in the office. And you are bound steal a few kisses when no one is looking, sometimes you get carried away and steal a lot more than kisses....unfortunately you get caught....you get fired or worse..... the possibility is endless.

DEAR AMY: I started a relationship with a work colleague about four months ago. I am aware that he already has a girlfriend in a long-distance relationship. They have been together for four years.
What started as a mere physical relationship has turned into something more emotional for us, and we repeatedly say and demonstrate that we love each other. However (and perhaps understandably), this guy is having a hard time parting with his girlfriend.

While I am happy when I am with him, it is always heartbreaking when I catch him speaking (or texting) with his girlfriend. I know I am such a tramp to steal another woman's boyfriend, but the love I have for him is genuine. He keeps saying that he wants to be with me, but I can't see this happening in the near future.

Last week I decided to take a "break" to think everything through. I said that I will be happy if he's happy, regardless of his decision, but I am in doubt whether I can handle his decision if he chooses to be with his girlfriend.
I do not know what to do and (or) how to handle the situation. Can you help? -- Betwixt

DEAR BETWIXT: It's been a long time since I have seen someone self-identify as "a tramp." I feel your pain -- I really do -- because if you are a Jean Harlow, man-stealing tramp, then the guy you are dating is a one-man Bradley Cooper movie. You don't say you are engaged in two relationships at once, so he gets the bag-of-spit award. I'm not going to sugarcoat it for you. If this guy loved you, like really, really loved you, he'd ditch his other relationship the minute he realized it.

Your strong emotional feelings have opened your eyes and clarified your intentions. This is high-stakes stuff. Lay it out there in a way that's uncompromising and all about you.
If you want to be in a monogamous relationship with him, then issue an ultimatum. Prepare to be dramatically and tenderly alone. Stock up on Ben and Jerry's and listen to Joni Mitchell's "Blue" album until your sadness passes. And it will pass.

DEAR AMY: "Rachel" wrote to you about a "stinky" individual at her gym. She wanted to know how to best respond to this. While I tend to ignore the majority of the odorous athletes at my gym, there was one time I didn't. I was on an elliptical machine next to a large gentleman whose body odour was extremely offensive. I couldn't move to another machine.

When my workout was finished I quietly and as unobtrusively as possible said, "You might want to look into a stronger deodorant." He was shocked and embarrassed. Perhaps his nose had become desensitized, because he seemed genuinely and blissfully unaware of the issue. He was mortified and quickly apologized.
While I "took one for the team" and said something, I will never forget the look on his face. I felt terrible. I took this as a lesson in tolerance. -- More Tolerant

DEAR TOLERANT: You obviously regret this discreetly expressed suggestion, but I wonder if in the long term it might have been a good thing for the gentleman in question.
I'd like to hear from people who have been "called out" for noticeable odours. This is a perennially awkward issue, and it would be great to learn what works from both sides.

EDMONTONSUN

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I Love Him But.....Im Not Sure

I love him 'but' I am not sure. This is a very common statement that we hear from girls these days. Relationships have changed over time and so have our perceptions towards them. Even after being in long term relationships, couples are unable to banish 'doubt' from their minds. The new generation is confused and not very determined when it comes to relationships.

Doubt kills a relationship; even the most perfect couple have ended up ruining their relationship because of doubt. So if you love a guy, do not come up with these doubts.

I love him but I don't like his family: This is one of the first things that women say. You must realise that he is a product of his family. So if you don't like his family, you will eventually end up not liking him. Otherwise, you can be a positive person and say that you will love his family just as much as you love him.

I love him but he doesn't earn enough: That is a tricky one. Every girl has some dreams. You have to take a call on whether your dreams are stronger than your love for him. Moreover, he may not earn enough now but does he have prospects for the future? This doubt in your relationship can be cleared only by you.

I love him but he doesn't love me: In that case, dump him. You must always be with the person who loves you the most and not with the person you love the most. That is the secret to a happy relationship.

I love him but he is not my soul mate: For sustaining a long term relationship, you need understanding more than love. Wild passion is a fleeting emotion; it will pass. So, it is better that you drop the guy you think you love and pursue someone who will be your soul mate. Be very clear in the parameters you have for your soul mate or else you will never find him.

I love him but I don't know if I always will: Trust me, if he is a practical guy he is thinking the same thing. Nothing is permanent in this world but nobody starts a relationship with the intention of ending it. The intent to stay together forever must be there, the rest will take care of itself.

I love him but I can't live with him: If you love him enough, then you will find a way to live with him. Relationships are all about compromise and adjustments; you cannot escape it. Never calculate how much you are investing in the relationship and compare it with how much he is putting in. Only if you rise above selfish motives will you be able to make it work.

Where there is love, there should be no 'ifs' and 'buts'. But most of the times, women don't know what they want. So these points should help them banish doubt from a relationship.

Boldsky

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Actress Beverly Naya Denies Any Romance With Uti Nwachukwu

Recently rumors surfaced online that Big Brother All Star winner, Uti Nwachukwu was in a Hot sizzling romance with British-born Nigerian Actress, Beverly Naya. According to several sources, they were spotted at events together and the chemistry was very obvious. A source even added that Uti was planning on walking her down the aisle soon.

Beverly who’s young budding career started with the lead role in the Movie ‘Home In Exile’ has gone on to star in “Weekend Getaway’ which also stars her “supposed hubby” Uti Nwachukwu, Genevieve Nnaji and Ramsey Noah. She also featured in Banky W’s ‘Follow You Go’ video.

She has been quiet about the alleged romance, but decided to break her silence recently by tweeting “This Insinuation is laughable. Please let’s not start a rumor. My boyfriend wasn’t too happy seeing this….”

She Said “Uti makes me laugh a lol, its always fun and games hanging out with him and nothing more.”

Clearly She has a boyfriend and its not Uti. Indeed it’s safe to say the duo are nothing more than just friends, and dating obviously will ruin their friendship and professional relationship.

Beverly is rather focused on her career (Acting). She is currently on set for her new musical film titled ‘In The Music’

Those spreading the rumor should take note!

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Oprah Reacts To Chris Brown And Rihanna Getting Back

Just a few months ago Rihanna sat down with Oprah for a very candid and honest interview, where she admitted that Chris Brown is the love of her life and since then Chrianna fans began counting down the days till the two would find their way back to one another.

O was on the recieving end of Rihanna's groundbreakingconfession and she is speaking her thoughts on the lovers rekindling their flame.

Oprah when asked if she was surprised, she replied:

“I don’t know if that’s true and no, I’m not surprised. I think that if she is prepared to deal with that and is prepared to help him help himself then so be it. I have no judgment about it. That’s why I can sit there and have such a great time with her because I do all my interviews with no judgment whatsoever. If that’s how you choose to lead your life, that’s really OK.”

Oprah actually says she believes RiRi is in a good space, revealing:

“You know what I loved about that interview is that she came with a big wide open heart. She was in the space of forgiveness. And that she learned a lesson that she was repeating with Chris Brown—exactly what she needed to learn from her father.”

Oprah is a wise woman, maybe she has a good point

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With Love From NYSC Camp

 

 

They say love is where you find it. A Youth Corper and a military camp instructor getting it. Is it allowed?

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